Christian Marriage Counseling, Transforming Our Minds...Christian marriage counseling is really a process of transforming our minds and conforming them to the Word Of God. After all, a part of becoming a christian is repentence. That involves a changing of our mind to see things GODs' way. **A WORD OF CAUTION** THIS IS ABOUT THE ACTIONS OF TWO CHRISTIANS. YOU CAN NOT EXPECT A NON-CHRISTIAN TO CONFORM THEIR MIND TO THE WORD OF GOD. You can get involved with our Christian marriage counseling and help others to strengthen their marriage. You can submit your Christian marriage tips on the form at the bottom of the page. To begin any discussion of christian marriage, we have to look at the biblical pattern. We are given that pattern in Ephesians 5:22-33. Prior to any marriage ceremony, this has to be the basis for the relationship. If a marriage is built on any other foundation, it is shaky at best and likely to fall apart. Most of us have heard of pre-nuptial contracts. They are usually used to protect peoples' property in the event of divorce. Ephesians 5:22-33 is the only biblical pre-nuptial agreement. As with any contract or agreement, both parties have duties that are spelled out. The best christian marriage counseling you can receive is: IF YOU BOTH CANNOT AGREE TO THESE TERMS DON'T GET MARRIED! You would not sign any other contract without knowing what is in it. Therefore, we must examine the scripture to see what is required of us in the relationship. This passage tells us that the marriage relationship is to be a picture of the church. Not only is it a picture for us to measure up to but it is also a picture for the world to see. A christian marriage will bring glory to GOD. The first duty that is given is for women. We are told, in verses 22-24, that the wife is to submit to the husband. Although this may seem like a huge burden, we are shown how husbands can make it easier. In spite of the popular culture that tells us we are all equal, GOD says what HE means! We must conform our minds to HIS and not to the worlds' view. The next part of the agreement presents the duties of the man. In verses 25-28, we are told that the husband must love his wife. It seems that the word "love" has been cheapened in our world to day. We need to get back to the biblical definition of love. We are given that in 1 John 3:16. We are told that love is the laying down of ones' life for the benefit of another. That seems hard enough but we get clarification from Romans 5:8. We are told that the standard is laying down your life for someone that doesn't love you. After all, when we were sinners, we didn't love GOD. Husbands, that means your love does not depend on the actions of your wives. Your agreement is to love them despite any words or actions. The final duty goes to the wife and it should be easy. At the end of verse 33, we are told that the wife must respect her husband. This will come easily if the husband is living up to his duty. If your marriage seems to be going through tough times, the best advice you can get is to read Ephesians 5:22-33 together. Then, pray together and for each other to transform your minds anew. We are told, in The Bible, that nothing will overcome the church not even the schemes of the devil. Therefore, we can be assured that, if our marriage is conformed to the picture of the church, it will last! If your christian marriage counseling is from The Counselor, you will have the right answers! Do You Have Any Secrets For A Lasting Marriage?Do you have any tips for a strong marriage? You can share your stories here and help other couples to grow closer together. What Other Visitors Have SaidClick below to see contributions from other visitors to this page...
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